That
your trust may be in the Lord, I have made them known to you today, even to
you. Have I not written for you thirty sayings of counsel and knowledge, to
make you know what is right and true…?
Proverbs 22:18-21
The survival costs many people have most control over
are food, fuel and communication. If you can shop around for the cheapest
prices and know when shops reduce their prices to avoid having to bin goods
passing the sell-by date, you can save a lot of money. If you turn off lights
in empty rooms, turn off televisions and computers rather than leave them on
stand-by, turning the central heating down a degree, you can accumulate a
useful amount of saved money over a month or quarter. And you can often do most
or all of these things without actually missing anything or even noticing the
difference.
List your lifestyle choices by their importance to you
and your family. We are, each one of us, unique individuals and we have
preferences different to others. This is why living in a consumer society can
be so dangerous, quite literally ‘soul destroying’, because we are easily pressurised
into spending our money like everyone else, in order to be like everyone else. (Your
soul is the real you.)
You might wish to argue that a television is a
survival cost that you cannot do without, especially if your children think
they need it to help with their school work or simply so they can ‘fit in’ at
school. You may be right (it is not for me to say) but, contrary to how it may
seem, a great many people do without one.
Music may be important to you but the price tag you
need to attach to your preference will depend on how to like to enjoy music. If you like listening to the radio, then
I expect the cost would be too small for you to identify in your overall
electricity costs. If you like buying downloads or CDs, then you can allocate
an average cost for the period of your budget. If you like attending free gigs,
you may still have to pay for transport and for a drink or snack while you are
there. If you pay to hear live music, or to dance in clubs, then you should be
able to identify how much you spend. If you enjoy playing music, as either a
musician or a DJ, this too has a price tag. In fact, almost all your choices
will have price tags and you need to know what they are.
List your impulse spending, even if you think that
what you have spent in the past week or month is not typical. Whether you are
addicted to cola, chocolate or t-shirts, you need to be real about the cost.
List the amounts you save and how much you give to
church, charities and other good causes. That is, everything you ‘spend’ but
get nothing for (at least, not now, although you can use your savings later).
Next weekend, I will explore how
to manage your budget so that you can spend less than you get and do more of
the things that are important to you.
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